Girls Saudiat: I want, "Chaib Adallalna not young Aallna"

See that the man is old money and better reason for a stable married life

New path is familiar, and the different direction of thinking of the girl in the selection of a suitable husband for her began to spread among adolescent girls and daughters of the twentieth in Saudi Arabia, and changed their dreams of Persia young romantic to a man who preceded age of twenty years or more it deems most appropriate, and most Dalala, and more reason and money, start her life with him without toil or hardship, not as initiated in the first with a young age, once their lives settle down until you have reached the age of reprehensible, and, as rumored among them "do not take Chaib Adallalna Aallna young man."
In the opinion of specialists in sociology, family and marriage that the causes of these girls went like a change is constant and priorities in the recent period in the community and the impact of the media, and the lack of guidance from the family.
Guidance and experience of Chdjahnhenak see in the Guidance of the Prophet in the marriage of the Prophet peace be upon him from Aisha - may Allah be pleased with them - evidence of the success of such marriages. Hala Al-Qahtani and confirms that age is not important, but understanding and satisfaction with mental and coexistence is the most important, and the difference between the Prophet and Aisha more than forty years were the happiest of his wives.
And tell Reem Mashaan - 22 years - the "Arab. Net" about her experience in such a marriage as a stable, successful and happy man, his mind mature and understands, and assumes the responsibilities of social and economic life and said: "Many of the divorces occurred between Almottagarbin age and other successful between the parties in Age. "
Almtpartyhotather family upbringing upbringing experienced by the author of this girl go to build a mental image that has defined her mind made based on the ideas of driving behaviors.
In the opinion of Chancellor social Maha acknowledged that the landmarks of that upbringing, which is based on the pattern of a radical from the path of socialization moderate, either pattern is spoiled, Ftergb girl in the association who continue with his career, which will not be achieved if accompanied by a young man in the prime of life looking on the composition of the same, minuteness or pattern of violence, makes it a reliable figure can not independence itself, making the girl looking for a security by including an older combined to rely on it.
In the same context, explaining her marriage to Chief Fayez Sarah Age that Saudi men are to grow up and grow up to repeat his partner famously, "I want to renew my youth" and the intervention of the wife tired myself, and wishes that her husband of twenty years very small, so as not to marry others.
Fayez and shorten the journey to marry an older and say, "Chaib Adallalna not Aallna young man."
Marriage paper and Kulmomen his part, sees Chancellor of psychological and family d. Khalid Essa: The management of these relations of the High Commissioner of the mind and the paper and pen is very dangerous and the consequences are always negative, especially on the girl who could turn her life into a set of concessions one after the other until you find the same in the bottom of the deep can not get out of it but the option of another, more dangerous or at least less dignity.
And rejects many of the girls think of this choice, and the girls who accused their senior Ertbtun pair are not in wealth and greed and lack of significance Thmhin the responsibility of marriage
There is a misconception that the girl with the big man pay her dowry and provides them with greater needs, and asks her to marry her hope, and compensation for the age difference between them.
According to Marwa Hussein - college student - that after the period begins the girl seriously consider and explore the different concerns and problems start and enough one image to signify the failure of this marriage, the man is great what he has not sleep early and snoring is different than in eating and drinking, even in sensations other is induced for News is following the series love.
Relationship Mokhtriqhomthel sale this fragile relationship sees d. Isa Al possibility that penetrate from the periphery of each of the spouses is very easy and accessible, because there is no common area between the two parties only the tasks and responsibilities only.
And affirms that life is built on the interests and managed the accounts and changed names in the marriage contract of the husband and wife to the buyer and seller and becomes marital life in which for the husband is the duration of consumption compared to what he paid and for the wife is the duration of use compared to what her own .. Life of a failed first moment no matter how long and the largest losses of innocent children, according to Al-Issa.
In contrast, Chancellor advised that the Muslim family upbringing on construction based on the intellectual right to clarify the true image of life and it is beautiful and delicious through the great work being done by young men in the formation of their lives and achieve their goals